Moving to a new city by yourself is one of the most exciting things you can doโbut itโs also one of the scariest. Whether youโre moving to study abroad, start a new job, or create a fresh chapter overseas, this big leap comes with both challenges and amazing rewards.
The thrill of starting somewhere new is hard to beat, but itโs not just about the fun. Moving to a new city alone successfully takes planning, preparation, and a willingness to get out of your comfort zone.
Below, Iโm sharing everything I learned from moving soloโfirst within my home country, and then across the world to Vancouver, Canada. These tips will help you settle in, make connections, and truly thrive in your new home.
Quick Tips for Moving to a New City Alone
- Start planning early with a moving checklist and timeline.
- Research everythingโneighborhoods, costs, jobs, and transport.
- Save more than you think youโll need for unexpected expenses.
- Pack light (especially if moving internationally).
- Step out of your comfort zone to make new friends.
- Explore like a local to feel at home faster.
My Experiences Of Moving To New Cities
Iโve moved to new cities twice on my own as an adultโonce within my home country, and once across continents.
When I moved from England to Vancouver, Canada, 10 years ago, I was craving a completely fresh start. Huge personal losses gave me the push I needed to make that leap. The experience taught me so much about what to do (and what to avoid) when making a big move alone.
Yes, itโs scary. Yes, itโs a gamble. But itโs also one of the best adventures youโll ever haveโif you prepare for it right.
Plan Your Move Step-by-Step
Planning is everything. The earlier you start, the easier it gets.
- Create a moving timeline: Work backward from your move date. List what needs to be done 3 months, 1 month, 2 weeks, and 1 week before.
- Book essentials early: flights, moving services, storage, and temporary accommodation.
- Stay organized with a moving checklist (download one or create your own).
It will massively reduce stress, worry, and overwhelm – and keep you organized so that you don’t forget anything. If you’re not sure what you will need to do, there are tons of resources online to help you.
Research Everything About Your New City
Your most important task is to do a lot of research, especially if you are planning to move to a new city in a different country – the more you know before you go, the smoother the transition.
Things to focus on:
- Cost of living and average rent
- Neighborhoods (find a couple that fit your budget and lifestyle)
- Public transport routes and commute times
- Local safety, healthcare, and support networks
Pro tip: Join city-specific Facebook groups or Reddit threads before you move. Youโll learn a ton from locals and other newcomers.
Make Lists & Set Goals For Your Move
As part of the planning for your move to a new city, make lists to stay organised.
As part of your planning:
- Create packing lists (separate what to bring, what to sell, and what to store).
- Make a to-buy list for essentials youโll need when you arrive.
- Set personal goals for your new life: career milestones, social activities, and must-see places.
This keeps you focused and gives you something exciting to work toward.
Choose the Right Neighborhood
Research neighborhoods to narrow down where you want to live. This will:
- Make your accommodation search less overwhelming.
- Help you avoid unsafe or inconvenient areas.
- Give you a head start on feeling โat home.โ
Pro Tip: If possible, book a temporary stay (Airbnb, furnished apartment) so you can explore in person before committing long-term.
Save More Money Than You Think Youโll Need
Financial planning is key. Aim for at least 3โ6 monthsโ living expenses as an emergency fund. Bring more if you can.
Why? Unexpected costs will pop up, and youโll want a buffer to enjoy socializing, trying new activities, and saying yes to opportunities.
Pack Light (and Smart)
Moving is expensive, especially overseas. The less you take, the cheaper and easier it will be.
- Consider moving into a furnished apartment to make settling in stress-free.
- Sell large items and furniture you donโt need.
- Prioritize essentials and sentimental items.
Donโt Be Afraid to Ask for Help
When I first moved to Vancouver, I barely knew anyone. Joining Facebook groups, newcomer meetups, and government settlement programs helped me so much.
Put yourself out thereโask questions, reach out to expat communities, and connect with people before you arrive.
Go Out & Explore In Your New City
Yes, moving is stressfulโbut itโs also exciting! Once youโre settled:
- Explore solo and embrace the adventure.
- Take walks to get familiar with your area.
- Try local cafes, markets, and cultural events.
Be Social (Even if Itโs Hard)
Making friends as an adult is tough, but not impossible. It will make all the difference, so prioritise socialising in your plans
- Attend meetups, classes, and events.
- Try apps like Meetup, Bumble BFF, and Internations.
- Say yes to invitations, even if youโre nervous.
- Give yourself a budget for social activities
Always find it hard to make new friends? Here are more ways to meet people and make friends when you move to a new place.
Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone
To go to events, and socialize with new people you will have to get out of your comfort zone. Push yourself to attend events alone, and promise yourself that you will make an effort to talk to people even when it is really uncomfortable.
Some events will be good, and some won’t be. If you go to an event and something feels off, or you’re extremely uncomfortable then just leave that event. The important thing is that you make an effort.
Also, don’t be afraid to try new things, and do things you have never done before. You are in a new city where no one knows you so go have fun and be adventurous.
Network & Make Connections
If youโre moving for work or job hunting, attend networking events and join industry groups. Volunteering is also a great way to build connections while giving back.
Keep A Piece Of Home With You
Homesickness happens. Keep a few small mementos to comfort you during tough moments.
Stay In Touch With Friends & Family
Just because you moved doesnโt mean your old relationships end. Schedule calls, send updates, and lean on loved ones when you need support.
Journal Or Blog About Your Experience
Documenting your move keeps you motivated and creates memories youโll treasure. Plus, itโs a great way to track your personal growth.
Walk & Use Public Transport
Finally, one of my biggest tips is to walk and use public transportation everywhere rather than drive. I’ve always found that by far it is the best way to explore any new place.
Walking and using transit will help you:
- Learn the city faster
- Save money
- Discover hidden gems
Safety Tips for Moving Alone
Add these to your plan:
- Share your location with someone you trust.
- Learn local emergency numbers.
- Trust your instincts in unfamiliar situations.
- Keep important documents and valuables secure.
FAQ’s About Moving To A New City
How do I choose the right city?
Research the cost of living, safety, job opportunities, and lifestyle factors. Visit first if you can.
How can I budget for the move?
List all expensesโmoving costs, deposits, furniture, and at least 3 monthsโ living expenses. Add 20% for surprises.
What are some practical tips for planning the move, from finding accommodation to budgeting for the transition?
Plan with meticulous organization. Search for housing online, create a budget, and anticipate expenses to make a smooth move. The more organized you are, the less stressful the overall move will be.
How can I overcome loneliness and make friends when I don’t know anyone?
Join meetups, attend local events, try friend apps, and say yes to social opportunities.
Are there support networks for newcomers?
Yes! Many cities have expat groups, newcomer associations, and online communities. Theyโre invaluable for advice and support.
What are some recommended ways to explore and embrace the new city’s culture and local lifestyle?
Embrace the city’s culture by exploring its landmarks, trying local cuisines, and mingling with locals. Dive into the unique lifestyle!
How can I prioritize self-care and maintain a positive mindset?
Self-care during this transformative period is vital, so include some simple self-care practices in your daily schedule, even if it’s just a few minutes. Remember to stay positive, take breaks, and indulge in activities that nourish your well-being.
Moving to a new city alone is a brave and exciting step.
With the right planning, mindset, and a little extra courage, youโll not only surviveโyouโll thrive. Take it one step at a time, embrace new experiences, and enjoy the journey of building a life you love.
Learn More About Living Abroad
- Lessons Learned From Living Abroad In Canada
- How To Deal With Homesickness While Abroad
- How To Move to A New City Alone Successfully
- Important Questions To Ask Yourself Before You Move Abroad
- 25 Ways To Meet People & Make Friends When You Move To A New Place
- 9 Personality Traits Expats Need To Live Overseas Successfully
- How To Effectively Network On Social Media
- 6 Reasons To Join A Professional Association
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Gemma Lawrence is the creator of This Brits Life. Born and raised in England, she has been living in British Columbia, Canada as a permanent resident since 2016. A solo traveler for the past 9 years, she hopes to inspire and help others to enjoy solo adventures too. As someone who has always struggled with her self-confidence and mental health, she also shares tips and inspirational stories relating to self-love, self-care, and mental health.
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